I’m not the least bit ashamed to admit that I’ve been stuck in the Friend Zone before.
What’s even worse, I once heard those words that most guys long to hear.
“Why don’t you stay over tonight and I’ll make you breakfast in the morning?”
Yes, I got invited to sleep over with a female friend and what did we do?
We watched movies and cuddled.
That’s all.
Pathetic, right? Not exactly.
You see, when this happened, I didn’t really know the bullet-proof plan for escaping the Friend Zone. Still, I was more than aware of the fact that I met two other girls because of the very person who had Friend Zoned me.
If she was my only source of female contact in the world, yes, I would have lost my mind spending the night. However, when you have other sources of female contact (casual or intimate), the pain of a Friend Zone situation becomes way less.
In fact, here are three reasons why you should love being stuck in the Friend Zone:
Free Image Consulting
Knowing an attractive female who is just a buddy can be a great source of frank advice for all areas of self-improvement. For things like style, grooming, and attitude, a good female friend can help you improve yourself immensely.
If your female friend is not already actively trying to improve you, don’t waste your opportunity for all sorts of precious feedback. Just ask.
Ask her about your clothes, your shoes, your hair, your cologne, your walk, your talk, and your overall energy level.
Ask and she will LOVE to tell you.
Take her advice and guess what you become? That’s right…WAY more attractive – specifically to a woman just like her.
Free Date Coaching
Just like getting free image advice can help you, dating advice from a female friend can give you a huge advantage too.
Once again, your female friend can act like the best filter in the world for all of your moves and plans.
If you don’t know what to do with other women, just ask your female friend.
Consult her on your ideas for dates, your thoughts on what women do an do not want, and spare no detail when asking.
Even during your own interactions with her, she may be giving you subtle reminders about some of the top turn-offs for women that you should avoid.
No matter what, if you see your female platonic crush as a resource and not a source of frustration, you will learn. You will learn to be a better version of you. A version that other women who you haven’t met yet will probably find very attractive.
The World’s Most Amazing Wing-Person
Why is it that women always seem to be more interested in taken men than those obviously-single guys wandering around the bar?
Is it evolutionary biology that frames the taken guy as safer or a better mating option because he already has someone?
Is it because women are competitive, curious, and complicated?
I don’t really know, but I would imagine it’s a combination of all of the above.
What’s the lesson here? Simple.
No matter where you’re at, having your attractive female friend next to you automatically makes you more attractive to other women.
This is the most beautiful part of the Friend Zone relationship. That is, when you can confirm with your female crush that you two are friends only, tell her, “Great, then you can help me pick out the right girls to date.”
If she really has no physical feelings for you, she’ll be more than happy to help you meet new women.
She’ll make you look great simply by being around you. She’ll help you succeed with new women where you would have otherwise failed.
What’s not to love about that?
