you can tell them/us to ABSTAIN.
Just say it, write it, publish it.
Whether they do it or not is not your business
You free your conscience by saying it.
Just like the Revd. Father tells you
If you come back for confession, he doesn't pursue you; does he?
Jesus preached it, his apostles preached and wrote it.
Yes; because it is the truth and truth does not change.