https://bit.ly/3oxpRBU https://bit.ly/3pzdiWb https://bit.ly/3rK21VG https://bit.ly/3pBECDa https://bit.ly/3rGvf7F https://bit.ly/3dureLq https://bit.ly/3osRbBk https://bit.ly/3DxGf9J https://bit.ly/31u4clB https://bit.ly/3oxpXJM https://bit.ly/303BPd3 Response Dear Pat, This is a fair enough comment. Probably bringing up the Disciplinary Wives Club was a mistake. I should have spoken of the Spencer Plan instead. Again,since it seems so matter so very, very much then again I was wrong in the way I phrased my comments. Yours, Carrie by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Aug 1 - 08:00 | reply to this comment Response I am sorry, I don't know your name. You address yourself as taken in hand so I will use that also. This is getting a bit repetitive. As for your basic comment, please see my comment to Lex. Again, the Spencer Plan would have been a better choice. I honestly never intended to start the screeds that developed. My own opinion, I'm sure many couples are here intentionally. However, isn't there just the slightest possibility that some start out here simply because let's face it we have been traditionally socialized that there is something wrong [and maybe Communistic!] about any relationship where men are not dominant and women not submissive. And that's what I meant when I mentioned the Disciplinary Wives Club, I mentioned it as an alternative [obviously too strongly for your taste admittedly] and that was all. Your own site suggests that individuals sometimes fight against their own natures and I didn't see anything wrong with individuals reassessing their priorities. Respecfully, Carrie by a Taken In Hand reader on 2006 Aug 1 - 08:35 | reply to this comment Response My Dear Carl: