I don't understand pastors of today o. Bible said if you must divorce, you must remain unmarried provided your divorced partner is still alive, else you will be committing fornication. So why will a pastor marry a divorcee in the first place and he is still saying he knows his happiness is still out there? It's obvious that you are not a true pastor and the marriage was never a marriage before God. The word of God can not be changed. What is written is written.