I am not going to throw blames or ask you questions that you have already answered.
I am just happy that you realized you were in the wrong hands and mustered the strength to pull out early enough.
That makes you my woman of the year.
Yes, I said it.
Not cause you are my namesake (that counts tho,lol) but cause you did what 70% of women can't and won't do.
Tell themselves the truth.
You did that and that shows strength. The money attracted you, Hello, that's absolutely normal! I love money too!
But you didn't allow it keep you!
I don't even care about the whole story. I am just awed at your boldness. Nne, you try.
Now lemme tell you something, a lot of people are going to insult you for this, call you names and curse you, 90% of them will be women. Out of the 90%, 50% are in the same situation but have sworn to die there, so you are like an alien to them so they automatically hate you already.
PAY NO MIND TO THEM. They will dream about you everyday.
Move on and put all this behind you. You are young. You will get someone designed for you.
Sending you very warm hugs from the arms of TGW.