Ask God to reveal things to you and also ask for a discerning spirit.
America of today is not the America of 5years ago! Things are different now.
Your husband is supposed to be the one to take that risk on his family behalf.
If you are not sure, please don't embark on the journey. Women instinct never lie most time.
I know you also want the best for your family and there's no harm in trying, but you can still succeed where you are.
I wish you nothing but the best.