Its not my mans primary duty to clean the kitchen,if he can provide the money for the cooking who am i not to cook,serve him and clean the kitchen ? Abegi my mama tot us how to clean immediately after cooking. Expecting my man to come clean the kitchen after a hard day job is insanely unromantic mbok. Truth is i wont feel comfortable sitting and hanging legs while my hubby does the cleaning. unless am sick or simply too tired and he insist on doing it apart from that mbanu its not right. Forget this man jooor a good man deserves to be treated like a KING