doing..I ve been a fan since 2013 during the mercy aigbe hotel gown brouhaha........OK now to my own story abi na chronicle. Lol I am a 26yrs male from Edo state I grew up in Lagos, in 2011 I got admission into poly and after my diploma went to uniben for my direct entry . I graduated last year from uniben and ever since my dad started clamouring for marriage since I was his only son and my 2 kid sis are still very small so i guessed he needed a grand child,I told him I wanted to go to U.S for my masters but he said I must get married have at least a kid before I leave Nigeria... So DAT was how I started screening all d girls I have dated trying to find out which one of dem is fit for marriage material lol. That was how I remembered my polytechnic girlfriend who did everything for me during our time in d poly ...she was every thing a man could ask for in marriage thou we were students then,non of d girls in d university compared to her to my calculation(mind u I have a current gals friend) so I got her number tru close from of hers during my polytechnic days... I was happy when she picked and then talked and first I ask if she was married which she said no to, my joy increased and we set a date to meet at her parent place becos she told me point blank that she was no longer ready for school shit and neither was i.... So the venue of this meeting was at her parent house in Benin I was in Canada(visit)so I called my dad and told him everything but he insisted on he seeing d gal first before me going to see her parent I told him it was just a visit he refused he said she need to spend a week in our House before I travel to their village. I told her on d phone and as expected she refused such, saying her dad will not let her leave without seeing me face to face To cut d story short I disobeyed my dad and came back to Nigeria from Lagos I went to Benin and then to my bae house with d hope of seeing my polytechnic beautiful bae again but my surprise came when I saw bae and I could not recognise her again she has changed looking very sick her glamorous skin gone blur I wanted to turn back but she called my name so I smiled and gave her a hug and d gifts I bought for her . we walked hand in hand to her place and I met her dad d man was talking about how nice d daughter was and all DAT but my mind was long in distance far from Africa lol before I could recover from my Tran's, madam don baf ready make we dey go my crib for lag.. I could not refuse I told her I will come pick her 2morrow but she new my plan and refused to let me go.... Now I am with her in my Lagos apartment this beautiful Sunday morning but I could not sleep yesterday not to talk of sex because my dad will never allow me marry her in such condition and I can't even present her to my dad in such condition, my plan is to buy her drug and let her recover and then send her back to her parent...my current girlfriend who is not a wife material has been calling saying she will come over after church... What will I tell her? What will I tell my dad? What is d next step from here I am confused abeg SDK people help a brother I am 26yrs old.