❤My boyfriend is on online dating sites ❤ Click here: http://ubprinanve.fastdownloadcloud.ru/dt?s=YToyOntzOjc6InJlZmVyZXIiO3M6MjE6Imh0dHA6Ly9iaXRiaW4uaXQyX2R0LyI7czozOiJrZXkiO3M6Mzg6Ik15IGJveWZyaWVuZCBpcyBvbiBvbmxpbmUgZGF0aW5nIHNpdGVzIjt9 I'm not so sure. I had an emotional breakdown. Sometimes I really tried to change the way he were just to my family to approve him more. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read on this site. I know this has made me feel insecure and I hate it, I just want to enjoy being in the relationship again! DOCTOR LIFE ADVICE IS NOT RESPONSIBLE IF SOMEONE IDENTIFIES YOU BASED ON THE INFORMATION PROVIDED IN YOUR QUESTION. If this is you, stop right here and please check out the and start doing some inner work. My boyfriend is always online, and custodes are texting his other phone from all over the world and sending naked pics. He reassured me that he was not going on there to look for girls, but just to look at their pictures. Understand that it comes from a supportive place. You seem solo a very understanding person, but almost to a fault. I want to run a check on my own personal email to find out where I am subscribed so that I can delete those accounts. Please think about what we said. Is this typical male behaviour and I am social unable to see beyond my own female perspective. He has never called me babe, darling, dear, honey or any pet names. Please know that I NEVER intend to make light of anyone's painful or sensitive situation. What to Do When Your Boyfriend is Still Online Dating - You can usually find her hanging out at a coffee shop, in a bookstore, or on a softball field. She is wondering if this is alright, and if she should address him. Dear Doctor Life Advice, My old boyfriend and I have resumed our exclusive relationship. What do I say to him if anything? Signed: Concerned Girlfriend Dear Concerned Girlfriend, This is a very interesting question, and it really depends on how you feel about your boyfriend. From your question, I can tell that you two were together in the past. There was a period during which you two broke up, and now you are back together. It seems that you may have even gone for years without dating each other. There must have been some reason for the two of you to have ended your relationship. Did you two just differ in the ways you think and behave? Was there infidelity involved on either side? Take a really good look at the reasons why your relationship ended the first time. Try to look objectively at what conflicts you had then, and see if they are still there. If there was infidelity involved, then there is going to be a major trust issue between the two of you that you will have to overcome this time around. I get all kinds of answers to that question. Some couples, after they break up, realize how much they really loved each other and how petty their conflicts were. They get back together and work on resolving their conflicts in a more constructive way. This is a healthy example of how two people get back together. It is really important to know this, because if you were OK with it the first time around, then he probably assumes you do not have a problem with it now. Take a little bit of time and think about how you really feel about this. Are you just mildly annoyed by this, or is this a more serious issue to you? For example, if you are going to threaten to leave him unless he cancels out all of his online dating accounts, then you should be prepared to really leave him. On the other hand, if it is just a mild annoyance to you, then it may not even be worth the energy to talk about it with him. The decision on what to say to him is ultimately based on how you feel about the situation. You did not mention this in your question. Did you just stumble onto this information because you share the same computer, or is it more complex than that? Do you have reason to mistrust your boyfriend? Have you been checking his computer accounts without his awareness? Are you yourself on dating sites and found out through your own account that he has been logged on? The answer to this question will tell you a lot about how much you and your boyfriend trust each other. The simple message of the above questions for you is that first you need to know more about yourself. Spend some time and figure out why you are in this relationship, what you want out of the relationship, and how you feel about this specific situation before you talk to your boyfriend. I want to share with you that although your question is very short, I get a sense that you do not trust your boyfriend. I believe that trust is the main ingredient for a healthy relationship, and without it, the relationship becomes troublesome and both of the partners suffer. I believe that once you know more about what you want from your relationship, it is important for you to talk to your boyfriend and clear the mystery of this situation. Open communication is essential for building a trusting and ultimately loving relationship. The first thing you need to do is to make sure if your boyfriend is under the same impression. For example, does it mean you can still flirt with or even date other people as long as there is no physical intimacy with anyone else, or does it mean completely exclusive? Stay firm and let him know that you need to discuss the issue of his online dating activities, before you can start talking about the issue of how you found out. I am afraid he is staying with you while looking for something he would perceive as better or more exciting. Do not expect him to read your mind. Notice that I cannot tell from your question how you feel about this, and what you expect. He probably does not know either. Be precise and clear. For example, you may tell him that this is unacceptable to you and would lead to ending your relationship, or you may tell him that you would prefer that he stop looking. Again, you need to know where you stand before you talk to him. Your feelings and expectations are your own, and no matter how much another person tries to change them for you, it never works. It is the beginning place, the foundation upon which more can be built. Where trust is, love can flourish. My exclusive boyfriend of 6 months, since 3 we are officially an item, is 38. He has been in contact with several women, all from far away parts of the world, e-mailing them and instant messaging. I told him last Friday that I had been snooping around in his computer and know about his flirting. He said he has nothing to hide. This morning I found that he was looking at the badoo app. Am I really, really stupid to stay with him, or do I just have an oversized ego and all this is actually good news since he is in contact with other women, learns a lot about love, and I benefit from that at last? I am really confused right now. As you ladies are, i am in the same boat. I am 24 yrs old and bf ex bf the same age. Last week I found his bank statements, and saw he has been paying for a while on a dating website. We have been dating for 7 yrs now and this is nothing new to me now, i confronted him couple years ago with the same situation and he swore to my face it was not him, that it was fraud. Men are good in talking sweet to us and we give in so easily…why? My grandma from years of experience has always told me, men will never change! Its true you will never be able to change him. Haha we all know they change for couple days, a week, couple months then its the same thing again. I broke up with my bf, and it has not been easy.. He has literally called me over 80 times a day the past couple days because he knows he messed up. It is killing me inside like there is no tomorrow, he was my world, i devoted to this one person 100% i had no eyes for anyone but him. I gave up friends and family to be with him. For him to do this? Crying has been the best medicine for me and keeping my self busy with things i love to do, no matter how lonely or sad you feel do not give another chance. Someday i know someone will find me… someone who will truly respect me, love me and be true to me. Sounds like a fairytale huh but not all people are the same. We have values and morals, and for some of us its important. Wish you all the best Hi there… guy im just kinda going through the same at minute. Me and my partner split up last Tuesday after 4 half years…this Monday i found out she was on POF since thursday. I dug some more