Your father works in effcc your husband is a lawyer, your son owns fcmb bank etc etc. So erm what do you want us to do?
Everyone knows that if you send money to someone you don't know you run the risk of being duped.
Your father, brother, son did not tell you abi?
It's a common business on Instagram, they take your money, Block you and then change their name in search for another mumu to fall.
Hopefully, you'll be wiser next time.