Don't believe every negative thing you hear concerning Marriage,it is a good thing but you have to keep your eyes open for Marriage killers...... Shine your eyes and read! · Laziness kills marriage · Suspicion kills marriage · Lack of trust kills marriage · Lack of mutual respect kills marriage · Unforgiveness kills marriage (Forgiveness is not optional but mandatory) · Arguments kills marriage · Keeping secrets from your spouse kills marriage · Every form of infidelity kills marriage (financial, emotional, psychological, material, etc) · Poor communication kills marriage . Lies easily kills marriage, be sincere to your spouse in every aspect. · Relating more with your parents than your spouse kills marriage · Lack of, inadequate or enjoyable sex kills marriage. · Nagging kills marriage · Too much talk and careless talk kills marriage · Spending less or little time with your spouse kills marriage · Being too independent minded kills marriage · Love for party, money and spending/partying kills marriage · Exposing the inadequacies of your spouse to your parents or siblings kills marriage · Not being steadfast/fervent in the spirit kills not only marriage but your life · Spurning correction and reprimand kills marriage. · Always wearing a sad face and being moody kills marriage. · FEMINISM ADVOCACY kills marriage. · Uncontrolled or hot temperament kills marriage. · Not understanding your role and position in marriage as instituted by God kills marriage. · Not being sensitive to the spiritual, emotional and physical needs of your spouse kills marriage · When anything threatens the position/security of a wife, her reaction(s) will be detrimental to her marriage. · Lack of the knowledge of the word of God kills marriage.