Some people aren't ever interested in having sex. This is called asexuality. But just because you don’t have to have sex now doesn’t mean you’ll never want to. People have different sex drives — an urge or interest in having sex. Lots of things affect sex drives, like stress, hormones, life experiences, illness, medicines, how comfortable you are in a relationship, how safe you feel, and how attracted you are to someone. How important sex is in your life can change over time — so don't worry if it’s not something you’re interested in right now. That’s totally normal and ok.