Am a lady, 27 years , a Dr and doing well for myself. I have a man (A) who I have been dating for 5 yrs and planning to get married this year. He is 12 years older than me.
Earlier this year, I met another man( B) ...he is 5 years older than me...and he totally swept me off my feet....passionate, feelings running high, can't stop thinking about him, when am with him, I feel butterflies...Note that these doesn't happen with Mr A....
Mr A is always busy, doesn't have time for fun...he is a workaholic(cant change). Mr B is the opposite....my relationship with Mr A lacks passion while with Mr B its a different story(I haven't started dating Mr B and I haven't given him the cookie) .
Now my problem is...am not sure if I want to marry Mr A any longer...Mr B is showing me a fairytale that I have always longed for. ....he touches me and all my problems vanish...
Again, Mr A loves me to a fault and always puts me first, he sponsored my education, gives my siblings allowances,he is never aggressive with me and he worships the ground I walk on.
Mr B is quick to anger and he has even told me he normally hits his ex gf.
I don't necessarily have to date Mr B but am not sure I want to go ahead and marry Mr A because our relationship lacks passion and fun....i don't want to be a cheating wife...please advise....
Do I marry Mr A and just forget about passion and deal with his workaholic nature? Or do I move on in the hopes of finding someone who would fulfill my desires as a woman...