Love and sex, are they the same thing? I would love to brainstorm on this topic with anyone interested. Love is deeper than what many people imagine, it embodies the soul. It is life itself. The very essence of existence. Love is creation and that is why it keeps no record of wrong, it doesn't do any harm, it knows no race or colour, it is sharing, it is the very reason why we exist. To describe the act having sex as " love making" is a misnomer. One can engage in a sex encounter without love but having sex with someone you love can also be the best thing that can happen to man.