AS A BANKER IN NAIJA, YOUR SALARY WILL DEFINITELY KEEP INCREASING. IF YOU DARE GO TO AMERICA, YOUR NAIJA DEGREES WONT BE VALUED THERE. YOU AND YOUR KIDS GO SUFFER BECAUSE TO GET JOB HERE IS HARD. MANY OF THE PEPLE ABROAD SLAYING ARE DOING EYE SERVICE. YOU HAVE NO IDEA THE KIND OF MENIAL JOBS THEY ARE DOING HERE. MY ADVICE TO ANYBODY WITH A GOOD JOB IN NAIJA, REMAIN THERE AND WORK HARD. yOU CAN COME TO YANKEE FOR HOLIDAY AND NOT TO QUIT YOUR JOB. SEND YOUR HUSBAND A LINK TO THIS POST. NO MATTER HOW CLOSE A FRIEND OR RELATIVE IS WITH YOU, THEY WILKL NOT BE NICE TO YOU FOREVER IF YOU ARE SQUATTING IN THEIR HOUSE. IF YOU SAY YOU WANT A HOUSE OF YOUR OWN, CAN YOU AFFORD, HEATING, RENT, BILLS AND FEEDING WITH 2 KIDS? WHO WILL BE WATCHING OVER THE KIDS WHEN YOU TRY TO HUSTLE. IF YOU MOVE INTO YOUR HUSBAND'S SISTER'S HOUSE, GET READY TO SEE FINISH BECAUSE THE INITIAL NICE CHARCTER IS FOR A WHILE BEFORE YOU TURN TO HOUSEMAID. TAKE MY ADVICE AND REMAIN IN NAIJA