I quiet agree on closing legs during relationship. Infact I'm actually team mermaids.
But not having sex doesn't guarantee a successful marriage. Cases of people marrying the one they slept with on first date have been read here. So its not sex but the guy man is the problem. Whoever will marry you,
will regardless of sex. It's better sef he broke up with her now. Imagine if the girl is saddled with this kind guy forever under marriage.
It's better to break up than marry someone who only marries you cause he hasn't slept with you yet (that marriage is headed for disaster). I have heard of virgins being treated like tramp in marriage. It's not sex. The guy just don't derseve the girl. And things has a way of leading us away from people we are not supposed to stay with for a lifetime.
Poster, please leave that guy. He is not meant to last a lifetime with you. Get busy until your husband comes around and FIND YOU.