most of the ladies here have pride and silly sense of entitlement. Once you add them first, they expect you to chat them up first all the time. I got tired of chatting them up first and I deleted them. My advise to you ladies, if you can swallow your pride and post your number on SnM, why then do you feel proud replying or even chatting someone up? Una dey form big girl but Una sabi how to beg for recharge card.