Who then is a relationship expert! Is he/she somwone that can adhere to all the wrong doing in a relationship/marriage and tells you same or someone who can't? Do people really book appointment with this group of specialists? Do they know it all or you just follow your heart and instinct or you follow their advise. All this Tokes and all I don't understand them. I believe if you can work things out please do, it can work out, sure it can, no matter what, except on domestic violence grounds. Once he hits you, if you can wait for his apology before leaving all well and good, but my advice is for you to please go before he apologises because he would definitely do it again and worse.....i am just typing, energy from nowhere. Hmmmm, i can feel one of those nights of insomnia today.