Chronicles poster of yesterday abroad is not easy. I have lived in the UK though as a teenager so i know what d hell I'm talking about. People will lie all is well then u get there it will do u voom in the eye. My sis came back from the US 2 months ago. She went just on vacation and my goodness nigerians r hustling there seriously.you can't work without a work permit.people r doing all kinds of menial jobs there to survive. My sis was dating the brother to a very popular musicisn here. Very popular. Whats the guy doing there? Menial jobs. This is how i know all these naija musicians live fake lives. I see his instagram displaying money but ur blood brother is doing menial jobs in the US everything all in the name of green card. I hear Canada is better. One guy in my estate his wife went there to study n left the kids with him here. He was working in d bank He has gotten his work permit cos the wife is there as a residence and they r relocating fully as a family first week of sept. How will u manage with 2 kids there?? Nannies r expensive. Ur husband is selfish for wanting to put the whole burden on u. I normally dont write long epistles or talk about snything other than my son but just had to this time. People over there wrote of their experiences. Learm from them . Abroad is not easy. Only people who have not lived outside or had plenty money to spare when they lived there will advise u to just pack up and leave