What some ladies end up with after the harrowing experience of "forcing" a man to fit their cookie cutter image of a husband is, a man who has mastered the art of dual or multiple personalities. They pretend to be whom you've laboured to make them be, when you are with them but the true man comes out to play whenever they are free from you. I find it pertinent to add here that, that will only happen if the man is CRAZY about you and wouldn't want to lose nor disappoint you. But can you imagine how miserable he would be feeling, knowing he can't be his true self with you? #hellobondage.
If you try to change a man who merely likes or is comfortable with you, he will make your marital life with him a living hell! Both of you will be miserable and God help you if he gets a side chic whom welcomes him with open arms and accepts him, warts and all. People rarely change,