Success is relative. Society should never define what success me for you. You'd be surprised that dangote feels like a failure, perhaps his dream is to be the richest in the world (which he isn't ) or to be the most generous. That takes nothing away from his achievements so far. On the other hand, a 50yr old man might feel so fulfilled having sent all his kids to Uni even though he lives in a one room apartment. Oh, Uche probably hasn't arrived o but she is on her way.