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Here were two that seemed geared towards this middle aged crowd. Fundraisers- Hospital fundraisers and the like often attract an established, older crowd because the tickets and topic are an investment of time and money. This may be a great venue to do good and mingle. Volunteering- Volunteering is a great way to meet caring people while investing your time in something worthwhile. Meetup Groups- Today there are groups devised around every topic and age group. If you go onto you can enter singles, your age group and an interest of yours and there will be many groups to join inexpensively. This is a great way to meet new people and you can go as often or as little as you want—just GO! You can even create your own to specifically meet your needs! Singles dances- Just like in your parents dating years, singles dances are a good way to meet a man. Pick an event specified towards your age group. Boomerparties has some dances. 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You can start your own and ask girl friends to invite a guy they were not interested in. Or, you can research book groups in your area. Self-development workshops- These are a good way to learn something about yourself and the others that you are with. Good places to check out are Omega, The Open Center and workshops and related conferences in your area. Matchmaker- Getting a reputable matchmaker can help you gain introductions to people in your age range who have similar interests. This is often more expensive than online dating, so I would start there. Church or synagogue singles group- Often your local church and synagogue is a great place to meet like-minded singles. Some of these groups even specify an age range, or you can start one. Perhaps if there is another church in your area that has one, you can join without becoming a member. Also, there will be people from later years there so there will be new people you did not know. Even if they are married, they may know someone for you. You can listen to the people in the crowd and start a conversation. Here is an example of a link: 20. Professional Groups: Another good way to meet experienced professionals is to network at something like the chamber of commerce where you can give out your card and talk to people in a non-pressured way. Check out their site: 21. Create a Classified Ad: If you want the freedom to very specifically describe yourself and the person you are looking for, why not create an ad? The man you are looking for may read the newspaper and he may not be looking for love online. There are now singles cruises and vacations for the over 40 set. Check out a few examples: www. Clubs of that Age Group: Movie Groups for singles over 40: movies. Speed dating: With speeddating you can meet 7-10 dates at once and practice your dating skills in a short period of time. Here are a few sites to start with: have age groupings , have older age groupings 26. Forums: This is a good way to meet single peers: www. Social Networking Sites- Yes, we have all known people who have met and hooked up on Facebook and Twitter but I am talking about specialty social networking sites for 40 somethings so you can get ideas and meet people in the same boat. A few suggestions to start are: , , and 29. This will automatically create a new dating pool. Regis Bin 71 230 Fifth The World Bar Again, I am not personally that into the bar scene myself so those of you who are, please share your own suggestions here too. My Best in Love, Paulette Other related event lists: Author Bio: Dr. My Dating Books on Amazon: : Dr. Sherman offers Mars women one-on-one coaching by phone or face to face in her Manhattan office.