When we have a problem how long does it takes us to get over it? Even when there's a death in the home why do we take so long to get back to church? Because the best place to be is in the presence of God, but we're sitting at home. Yes it's a terrible thing that's happened, sitting at home that's not going to help us. Get into a positive place not a negative place where people visit & say, "Shame how could it happen to you" Renew our mind's focus on good things that are pure & holy... 
 Be a praying person, Don't stop, don't give up, don't give in, don't quit. Fast, pray, it's time to get our prayers answered. Lay our lives on the altar, crucify the flesh, let there be nothing of us but all of God. The fire of God will fall on our favour. Make a decision to follow Jesus. We are a sacrifice of worship unto God. Be full of LOVE, love what we're doing. We can only endure the pain, hurt & suffering of paying the price or making a sacrifice when we're full of LOVE. In all our pain & aches we should do nothing more than being with people of God in the presence of God & see lives changed & transformed...