I knew this girl was saying the truth and I was surprised on comments I read here.
We have this culture in Nigeria where we blame the victims, you get raped they say why did you go visit a guy,maybe you are even lieing and you wanted it. It becomes your story against his.
Your car gets broken into, they break your side window while in traffic to get to your bag. Some will blame you, why is your own bag in your own car. You shld have put it in your boot. Don't you know robbers will see your bag, that you even put on the floor of your car o. ( happened to a friend).
I know ppl that have lost phones genuinely and it was returned. My colleague went to visit his gf on gisting near the car, he forgot his phone on the bonnet. It dropped along the way, someone found it and called his mother that was his last call. And they told him how to come pick it.