Let me leave the first one but the second one that even has Sex tape you stayed and was asking if you could cohabit with him? Haaaa!! Well at least you have decided to leave.
But how could you stay with such a selfish, morals lacking and wicked soul. He is so blinded by his selfish desires that he has guts to be embittered when you got a place of your own?? Is he the one paying? Even if he is. You didn't put a gun to his head and you're not his wife.
Pls note that he wanted you to hear everything. It's left for you to leave him cos he takes you for a fool. Just try your best to forget what everyone will say.