Firstly, thanks for the privilege to relate with you and other beautiful people on this platform. You all make me smile and forget about the worries. Please I need your advice as I am about to take a urge decision and I am afraid because I fear it will backfire. My husband works with the government and right now, we are not good financially as his salary of 62k comes every two months. I on the other hand am a banker and I earn twice his salary, which means I have to carter for the family until he is paid. my issue now is my husband succeeded in convincing his elder sister to sponsor me to USA to study and get a job, meaning I should resign my own job and relocate to USA with two children alone. Stella honestly I am scared. My husband wants me to go becos I am the intelligent one and I have a very good result and I have more experience in my field and that the kids deserve a better life. One thing he does not know is that all this news on CNN makes me scared and what about if I don't get a job after two years and I find myself back in naija again????. I feel scared going out there with two babies.