https://bit.ly/3BY4IoT https://bit.ly/3jfNrQL https://bit.ly/3naOZMO https://bit.ly/3n5um4N https://bit.ly/3vstzyo https://bit.ly/3BYRA2y https://bit.ly/3aSV6zS https://bit.ly/3Gbgzm2 https://bit.ly/3peprkL https://bit.ly/3jfNtrR https://bit.ly/3ncbt0d https://bit.ly/3lUKjvl https://bit.ly/3FV7Owh https://bit.ly/3G48Tlh https://bit.ly/3FYvQGB 1) Have the courage to question your relationship… 2) Have the courage to aspire more for your happiness 3) Have the courage to make the decision about your relationship 4) Lastly, have the courage to stay with the decision and deal with the consequences (financially, emotionally from yourself and with how your friends and family deal with your decision) REPLY Davey January 6, 2016 at 2:52 pm # I just had a Eureka moment about myself. I am having trouble with my relationship with a wonderful lady because of her ten year old son. I am sixty and raised my children successfully. I realized that since my divorce and including my ex, I am a rescue dog! I have subconsciously rejected women who did not need rescuing and have been attracted to women that needed some form of rescue, emotional, financial, or both. Because of this, I put my needs on the back burner but after a while, that becomes an issue and the relationship becomes sour. Wow! Better late than never! REPLY Eddie Corbano January 6, 2016 at 3:41 pm # Congrats Davey, that is a major discovery that will impact your future relationships positively. Good job! REPLY Davey December 18, 2015 at 1:46 pm # What was I thinking? I just turned 60 years old although I’ve been told by many that I look 50. For the past nine months, I’ve been living with a wonderful gal who is 46 and has a 10 year old son. I feel that was a huge mistake. We used to have so much fun when we lived separately. I am pretty much diametrically opposite on raising children. I raised two boys of my own who are very successful in life. She is extremely lenient in my view and I am tired of being the bad guy. I don’t necessarily want to break up but I don’t want to live with her. How do I make that happen?