"Religiousness" is what most Christians in Nigeria practice. Most haven't truly given their life to Christ. Nobody is talking about the man's stance just cos he goes to church regularly, which is him being religious. I have an uncle whose life clearly shows he's born again but he has one problem- he doesn't believe in "the gathering of brethren". Would you say he's unreligious? We're hearing a second-person account and can't be sure what's going on as regards her spiritual life. What I think is that the man should leave that woman alone and stop looking at her as if she's a project to be changed. She's not pretending and living her life as she wants it. If he's not comfortable with what he sees, he should move along so someone worthy of her can step in. This one we're talking sef, do we know if he's her "husband material"? I dunni where my own standalone comment disappeared to, so pardon me for responding to your comment and expanding on my thoughts