Sometimes I think we pretty much waste time typing long messages because you people still go ahead to what you want anyway. Don't even beat yourself up that maybe if you had moved in with him, things would have been different. It is who he is, a cheat and a liar. I don't understand what you mean by your friends and family are looking up to you both? So what? Are you getting married for them or for you? The way most of you carry men on your heads, I wonder if there are no other things to focus on than men and relationships. He'd beg you and your accept, you've given him too much power over you.
Do what you think it's best, you're the one wearing the shoes.
He is even a pornstar in the making, oriegwu.