Is this the kind of man you want to spend the rest of your life with? Are you handicapped? Is he the only man on earth that you can't just do away with him? You're concerned about what your families will say. Yimu* tell them you're not interested in the rshp anymore and that he's a cheat which will never end anyways. Have some self respect for yourself. And the wicked man wanted you two to cohabit. He obviously has no regards for you or your opinions else he'd have shut his dirty mouth even after you convinced him. You have spent 5 years with him. That's your mistake and we learn from mistakes. Now move on with dignity.work on yourself. Have some self respect for yourself. Go and read books on rshp like 'why men love bitches" and "why men marry bitches". Don't settle for less. If you go back to him, then be ready to endure and tolerate for the rest of your life. He has seen you finish. There's nothing more for him to look towards with you.