❤Girls wanting to be friends first before dating ❤ Click here: http://kefrisegar.fastdownloadcloud.ru/dt?s=YToyOntzOjc6InJlZmVyZXIiO3M6MjE6Imh0dHA6Ly9iaXRiaW4uaXQyX2R0LyI7czozOiJrZXkiO3M6NDc6IkdpcmxzIHdhbnRpbmcgdG8gYmUgZnJpZW5kcyBmaXJzdCBiZWZvcmUgZGF0aW5nIjt9 What stung the most was what happened after. What do I mean by this? Her land lady seems interested in breaking us apart. Most women want men that treat them respectfully and can still rock their worlds. Never played games, pursued me with all diligence and made my heart melt. Is that a 90s sitcom plot or what. I met him and I felt overwhelmed. He kept texting but I replied so late. I never thought of him as particularly attractive. If you've ever heard these guys discuss why they did what they did openly, you'll find that most of them believe the girl played games with them. Don't let any rom-com u you think otherwise. After all, we are all prone to occasional lapses in judgement. Why Men Want to Be Just Friends - Bonding in friendship 3. DO NOT AGREE TO THESE TERMS. THERE IS ONLY ONE WAY FOR A MAN TO WIN IN THIS SITUATION. Ok, she wants you to only be friends. I think you should respect her and stop pursuing her romantically. With that wish, she also has to deal with something else. I suggest that you also do NOT remain friends with her. If there is any chance that she will see you romantically, sooner rather than later or NEVER, the probability of it happening increases DRAMATICALLY if you do not offer emotional support as a friend. This seems mean, but let me tell you, a man NEVER has to offer friendship to a woman. ESPECIALLY if the man is interested in the woman romantically. This is only meeting her emotional needs without getting anything in return. In other words, if you are interested in a woman romantically and settle for a friendship, you are allowing her to step all over you and use you. What do I mean by this? I mean that you are offering her what she needs most emotional support without her having to satisfy your need that romantic connection A man should not stick around and settle for friendship if he wants more. They may not realize this, but they start feeling like they can walk all over you, demand anything, take you forgranted, basically NOT the position you want to be in. You lose respect for a man who will sit around and just be your friend when he really wants more. She starts liking a new guy. You end up being the guy who hears about the new guy. Then you become the pushover who gets to hear about the new guy all the while wishing you were him. If you have any chance of her seeing you romantically, she has to have a chance to miss what you provided her emotionally, and you can only do this if you do not offer her friendship. In my past there was this man who pursued me diligently and I declined, even though I was MADLY attracted to him. I declined because at the time I wanted to be single and I thought he was too young. And God knows, I could never look at you and see you as just a friend. To this day, I still think about him with such high regard. Never played games, pursued me with all diligence and made my heart melt. That was the last time we ever spoke, but he left an impression on me. THAT is how a man needs to react. If things started off smoothly and there were romantic sparks but then something went awry, what I suggest you do is first ask her what happened… Was there ever a romantic spark on her part? If so, what changed it? That way, you can leave the situation having learned something to apply to the next woman you pursue. Then I would LEAVE HER ALONE. She will respond in one of two ways: She will miss you and realize that she does want you and come crawling back… or she will forget about you… and you will forget about her. Either way, you will walk away a winner. In that case, what I mean is that you should not treat her any differently than all the other friends. THAT means that she should not get special treatment. No prolonged one-on-one psuedo dates. Just hang out with her in the group like everyone else. She has to feel that she is NOT any different from the guys who are just your buddies. The issue though is that we have a kid together, so there needs to be contact obviously but the only contact should be about our daughter, short and to the point. The FB statuses are positive, funny I am acting upbeat. In fact she didnt talk to me after she got what she wanted! Is this the right approach? Is this all I can do other than start dating someone else? I have learned so many things through having friendships with guys. Or is this just for guys who are interested in you? Do we stop being friends with that guy? Encourage him to pursue other women. Build up his confidence by telling him what he brings to the table and if there is a way to lovingly tell him things he could change to increase his chance of securing dates with women, tell him. Take a step back. Is there any way you can actually meet her? Some things, like chemistry need actually face to face, especially for a woman. The most important thing you need to do is find a way to actually meet. And when you meet, find an opportunity to steal a kiss! She is keeping you around for emotional support! Ask men who have been around would tell you that. She wants to keep you on a leash! Who does 2 hour skype who are not more than friends? Start seeing other people for real. Hey, send her some of those intimate pictures for kicks! Unless medical problems and so on. Sorry I am a tough guy with guys but not with women. When love I love. Or you are a very small exception or a liar. Or full of shit. Conquering a woman having her love you are two different things. You really know how to win the affections of a girl. We get on fantastically well, but she says she is not interested and just wanted to be friends. She seemed a little shocked and ended the phone call. What am I to make of this? So girls are not used to hearing the guy who is pursuing them does not accept a friendship. Unfortunately only two things will happen if I only pursue a friendship with you. If I agree to your friendship, just know I will NEVER stop trying to pursue you romantically. It is not in my nature to see you as merely platonic. You have so many qualities I want in a partner. It would break my heart to just be your friend if I knew you would never want anything more. I hope you can understand and respect my position. So either accept a friendship with me knowing I will never stop pursuing you romantically, or accept that I must deny you of my friendship. Haha, I think the trick is just trying to feel out the sentiment and having a good awareness of the situation. If it feels like the vibe is anxious at all, you might just try slowing things down for a bit. Hope that makes sense. After a couple of months of me subtly pursuing her, things happened we slept together , and very quickly after she broke up with her boyfriend. After a couple of months of hanging out, she changed her behaviour in a couple of days and said she wants to be friends. And that she is confused. And thing