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That being said…in February I felt the worst feeling ever. NOPE, DONT file you. And I will not tolerate anything else from others. Dating a Long-Term Bachelor - However, I strongly believe that without the negative image of Asian men, I would be much more popular considering my success in career and education. Every generation has an age where, consciously or otherwise, we expect to be married by. In the old days, it was 30. In more modern times, it was pushed back to 35. These days, the mean age at first marriage is at an all-time high: 26 for women, 28 for men. So what happens if you do? Because people wonder about anyone who deviates from the norm. Many people think such things. Yes: if someone is over 40 and never been married, they are outside the norm. Yes, there probably is a reason for the deviation from the norm. But does that reason have to be a negative thing? Does that reason make that person a poor partner? There are many reasons a person may delay marrying. Here are several you may not have considered: Career. Some people choose to focus heavily on their careers in their youth. Some people take longer to develop the desire for marriage, or the maturity necessary to take that step. Some people want marriage at a younger age, but simply lack the social skills necessary to meet the right person. So it takes longer for such folks to meet their other half. There are plenty of people who want marriage or its equivalent, but have deep-seated fears about actually doing it. These are just a few examples of why a person may not be married by age 40. As you can see, many of them are not problematic. Get to know them. But the trick is to figure out if that reason is a problem for you, or not. Useful Links Hey Christine, great thread. I hardly had any girlfriends my whole life.. I lost my virginity at the age of 34, not my choice to wait this long.. Only had 3 relationships my whole life.. When women are not intrested in someone, and the man gets rejected all his life, He can NOT force a woman to like him… Girls always ran from me, avoided me.. It was not my plans not to be married by now.. My goals were no later than 28.. Some times a man can not change what is meant to be.. I hate being alone. I hate the fact that I get rejected all the time. I quit chasing and asking women almost 20 years ago. I still play around some times and experiment, and its still the same thing.. NOPE,, DONT want you. So since women do not want me, I am single. I am single as well and I was married to a man who told me the only reason he married me was to use my smarts and that was it. I think its just that you go after a certain class of women, or only women in your country or of a certain race. If you never want to marry learn to live alone and be content, besides you save a fat load of cash if you are single and disciplined. You can always hire a professional coach if you really want to get hitched. I am 38 never married, lost my virginity at 32. Reason why I am single was first because I was very shy and lacked confidence, then the need for a stable career emerged. Im in the creative arts and its cut throat in, im back at college to study something else. I hope to get someone on campus to marry but im in no real rush. Man there are girls in Hong Kong, girls in Russia. If it means a lot to you to redeem yourself having been rejected by pretty women, dont compromise.. Dont let yourself go. Only had one good man who I loved and loved me but we were low income drowning in debt the whole time so eventually he started improving and I was not and we drifted apart. He goes to karoke bars at times I go but the people are in 40s I want someone ckos e in age. Join a few of them most of them have lots of women in these groups. The discussion was so good, I remember some of the better points years later. Most of the good points were in response to a woman who thought that never married people over 40 were somehow defective. Another woman brought up the excellent point that she was in several LTRs, had gotten several offers over the years, but that she was never married, with no regrets, because her judgement was good enough to avoid what would have become bad marriages. The last good point was someone pointing how irrational it was to pick a magic number for marking someone as being defective. Is a never married person defective at 39? Then why at 40 or 45? What changes the day after a single 39 year olds birthday? To be honest, I would be curious and cautious about someone who was never married by a certain age or who has multiple marriages, or why they got divorced. Some people grow and become good choices. The only way to know is to get to know the person, which will not happen in online dating. As all the online dating experts state, online daters have the illusion of choice and as a result will become super picky? He parts his hair on the right instead of the left? I lived at home with my mother for 15 years after my father passed away. During this time I lived at home, I was either occupied with my hobby bike racing or finishing my post graduate education. My bad I guess. I was involved with my ex from 25-27. In fact I find more single, never been married women with at least ONE CHILD. To me that is a cause of concern, its a total Red Flag if she has two kids and never considered marrying either of the fathers of those children. I see that scenario much too often and this is why I have chosen to stay on the sidelines. Actually I have put in a change of venue. I do all my work overseas now, Europe and South America. Like I said, 30something with two children out of wedlock is just too much of accept as a compromise. I can relate:- so important to address this current phenomenon. I find this to be a natural result of changes in society: women not needing men as much and men not needing women as much…it will take a bit more time to balance that need for individual development and need for intimacy and love. But I am part of this group as well, however not by conscious choice but simply because of not finding the right person yet. Could it just be circumstantial not necessarily someone defective? While singletons have personality issues, divorced have baggage etc. The important thing is to learn self-love, resolve your past, and open your heart to pain and happiness. The day will come when the need to remain closed will become more painful than the risk to open. I have spent most of my adult dating life being fr