Never let your past experiences harm your future. Your past can't be altered and your future doesn't deserve the punishment..... Raise your self-esteem to such a level that you only allow loving experiences in your life. Don't waste time trying to get even. It doesn't work. What we give out always comes back to us. So lets drop the past and work on loving ourselves in the now. Then we will have a wonderful future The people who affect your life and the downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experiences can be learnt from, those lessons are the hardest of all, but the most important. I Ralph Cannon Zabbey believes so.