Ah ah she did mention above poverty na bastard na. She obviously admitted her wrong besides I wouldn't be hard on this girl. Discernment is key.
Ask the Holy spirit before courtship. When emotions are involved it's difficult to hear.
Next if the Holy spirit says yes, keep the Holy spirit in your marriage. Discernment is key.
Rather than focusing on her intended please have a personal​ relationship with Jesus Christ. Total restoration and the spiritual bond is broken