Any man who is willing to let you walk away without trying to adjust to your complains isnt worth a huge sacrifice as relocating to another area code. Hes able to get you depressed, even with the ocean inbetween, image how fucked ur life will be under one roof, even wen u fart & it smells, that will be a prblem.... so heres wat i think u should do, tell him ure done and pulling off the plug, then watch his reaction a few days late