It might be difficult to navigate a successful marriage. You've probably found it out whether you've been together for thirty days or thirty years. We had expectations as wives that began long before our husband got down on one knee. We had fantasies of how our lives as a forever couple would be. Perhaps your dreams came true, or perhaps they didn't. But, if you're anything like me, I'm sure you found what happened after you walked down the aisle to be somewhere in between. On this note i have compiled a list of things every wife should be doibg for her husband.

1. Learn to say i am sorry



 
There is no way a man and a woman can live together for the rest of their lives without disagreeing at some point. Always recall the phrase "we disagree to agree" in such situations. Those who do not understand how marriage works will always see a disagreement with their husband as an opportunity to prove to the world that they are street fighters. If a woman wants to retain her marriage and keep intruders at bay, she must be willing to apologize to her spouse. A lady must learn to say "I am sorry" whenever she does something wrong. Your maturity and wisdom are demonstrated by your ability to apologize. Provoke your husband can damage your marriage.

2. Physical touch


I'm not referring about what happens behind closed doors. I'm talking about bumping into each other in the vehicle, the grocery store, on the couch, or in the kitchen. Touch is a powerful link; it expresses warmth, intimacy, and says "I love you" without saying anything. Even though your husband doesn't seem to require that level of affection, he most likely does. He might not even be aware of it. Make a concerted effort to do it this week. Examine his reaction when you sit close to him, as you did when you were dating, grasp his hand during a movie, or touch his shoulders after work. It's up to you to adore him. Take advantage of the fact that you're the only woman who has this kind of contact with him.

3. Maintain Your beauty

Today's roadways, environments, and other places are brimming with women, superbly dressed, beautiful-looking ladies who are still hunting for love. This group had become a significant challenge to married women who enjoy dressing shabbily just because they are caring for one or two children at home. The fact is that women must maintain their distinct outlook that a man noticed in them before deciding to ask them out in the first place. A woman's interior and exterior attractiveness should be maintained at all times, as this is what provides her actual attraction as a wife.

4. Show him respect



 
Allowing him to make every decision and then following him blindly is not a sign of respect. Respect is defined as having faith in him as a life partner and treating him as you would want to be treated. It's also about thinking about what he has to say before making a decision, as well as discussing things out and cooperating as a team. With the words "I do," come a lot of responsibilities. Respect is trusting him to handle the responsibilities he's promised to take on so you can focus on the responsibilities you've promised to take on.

5. Good cooking


In all aspects of her household's needs, a woman is supposed to be a soul provider. Any wife who knows how to cook has already won her husband's heart. A lady who is unable to prepare a delectable supper may be jeopardizing her marriage. Men generally talk about how they always love their great meals at home at their place of business, gathering, bar, or joint. If your maid prepared the delectable food, it will remain on their minds and discussed with their friends for a long time. So, learn to cook well so that you are always on your husband's mind.

6. Allow him to be himself.

He drew your attention with his out-of-the-box personality, his crooked smile, the way he chuckled through bad TV shows, and...you fill in the blank with all the qualities you admired in your boyfriend when you first started dating. So, why do so many of us attempt to divorce our husbands after the wedding? He will be shaped by his experiences. With God's help, not yours, he'll develop, adapt, and change. Allow him to be the husband you've chosen. Accept him as he is right now. Allow him time to figure out who he is. And don't stop falling in love with the guy he's turning into.

7. Allow him to have some personal space.


Sure, he's your husband, and he's yours alone. He does, however, require some personal space and time from time to time. Keep an eye out for indicators that he wants some space, and never disturb him for things that he doesn't need when he needs peace of mind.

8. Thank him for everything he does for you.

Whatever he does for you, large or small, appreciate it. Even if you only say 'thank you,' it will suffice for him. He would appreciate hearing words of gratitude from your mouth now and again because it demonstrates that you are aware of his attempts to keep you pleased.