It can be easier to handle the relationship with your employees or church members than it is to handle the relationship with your spouse. This is because marriage is not always easy. No one goes into a marriage expecting to have a divorce.
We want to have marriages where we can be happy and the love will never die. However, the words we speak to each other are among the major factors that will make this happen.
Words are powerful to the extent that they can help preserve our marriages. It can make your partner feel sorrowful or happy.
The problem here is that the right words don't usually come to our minds when it is important to say them. This is the reason why we must learn how to speak these words to our partners at the right time.
The following are the words you should speak to show your feelings for your partner's and to preserve your marriage:
1) I'm sorry for what I've done. I never meant to hurt you. I won't do it again: Nobody is perfect, and we should learn to apologize to our partners immediately when we realize that we're at fault.
This will prevent our spouses from holding grudges against us. It won't make them feel like they are being manipulated. It's a way to show humility to your partner and loyalty to your relationship.
2) I care about you: When you say this to your partner, especially in the morning while going to the office, they will feel loved.
People can get lost in daily activities and forget to show some love to their partners. However, your relationship becomes stronger each time you reassure your partner of your love for them.
3) Thank you for everything you've done: This is a word we must learn to speak to our partners to show our gratitude to them and encourage them.
Most of the time, if we don't say this word to them, they might feel that we're only taking advantage of them. Heartfelt gratitude is a way to show your partner how much they mean to you.
4) You are right: Whenever you say this to your partner during a conversation or an argument, it shows that you understand their point of view and you are not willing to have a debate with them on that issue.
Your partner may not always be right, but you have allowed them to be justified for the sake of peace.
These four words are easy to say to your partner and can help you avoid some things that can cause unnecessary problems in your relationship.
