❤Boyfriend embarrassed me in front of friends
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A female reader, , writes 19 December 2011 : Hello there! We all do stupid things sometimes, even in front of the people we're trying to impress. Of course you can always go after him and try many ways to express how terribly sorry you are, but I doubt if that would be effective since he is still pretty much caught up in his anger.
If you posted anything embarrassing on social media, delete it so that you can forget about it forever. I personally find that I have to confront things instead of trying to forget about them. Emphasize that you're not trying to be controlling, you just don't want him to hurt his finger by doing it so much.
He told me that he didn't think it was awkward, and that he anon thought my sister was acting goofy and that he was just playing along with it I did NOT agree, but I dropped it once again. She confirmed that it was awkward and that her friend felt the same. They're not the ones who have to find him sincere. I am at a loss of how to handle this. You had three grown women perfectly capable of steering a conversation if you really wanted to. And tell us, have you secretly, in your heart of hearts ever been embarrassed by a boyfriend. He was sorry and prime straight away it wasnt nice. We talked about my sister's job and how she met her friend in grad school. And in this case he is most likely not going to change his mind in anytime soon. This weekend, he came to visit me in my city for a very between stay.
B/f embarrassed me in front of his friends. Should we talk about it again? - It makes me feel a teensy bit better.
Should we talk about it again? Tagged as: , Question - 18 December 2011 5 Answers - Newest, 19 December 2011 A female age 30-35, anonymous writes: I dont know whether this is a dumpable offence or not.... I was invited to my boyfriends house christmas dinner, and i was meeting some friends i had not yet met before, so i was trying hard to make an effort for him as you do, and during dinner he blurted out something disrespectful about me infront of 3 of his friends, and it totally embarrassed me and made me feel really small. Long before we begun dating, a friend of his and i had a drunken snog one night. Nothing was ever said about it and we all laughed it off. But me and him started going out recently, and he has made a joke about it once or twice between us, and i have kinda reassured him it was drunken i dont remember it and nothing was ever going to come of it. I said i dont want you to keep bringing it up. Then he made the rude comment infront of that friend and two friends i hadnt yet met, about us snogging. He knew I was livid but i sucked it up and continued the conversation moving on swiftly with a smile. And has always been thoughtful. He was sorry and admitted straight away it wasnt nice. And said he doesn't have a problem with the snog at all, it was meant as a joke he says. But I think i'd just like a little extra effort from his side, to call me or just arrange to go for a coffee to have a hug and smile again. I've sent him a message saying I think I need a hug. And he just doesnt respond. He's usually quick to reply. Yet when I need him the most he's distant. I have been out with my friends since it happened, so i havent sat and dwelled on it or anything. But when I am going to bed and ready for sleep, its on my mind. Just want to hear his voice and be normal again. Saying very little but making what you do say count carries far more weight than a long, drawn out conversation. He heard you the first time and he knows you're less than impressed. If it never happens again and everything else in your relationship is going well then I would not consider this a dumpable offense. I really don't see why you need to have details of her sexual habits to be able to answer this question. A reader, anonymous, writes 19 December 2011 : He's pushing late 20s and you mean to tell me, he doesn't know right from wrong on how to love and respect his woman and not trash talk her in front of fellow guys, his friends? Just like I wouldn't let a GF of mine disrespect her BF in front of others either. Its abusive and no one deserves that crap. Let alone the people who witness such a disgraceful display. This BF fights dirty and he was deliberate about it. This is no, its no big deal and oh well, it was yesterday event. Is this the first time anything like this public humiliation occured? I suggest to you to couples counselling because BF has the attitude that he did nothing wrong. And even then its the next day, not even a remorseful I am sorry for what I have done. I hurt you and I will not do that again. Or are you just friends that happen to have had an embarrasing too much information moment? Be specific about where you are coming from and what advice you are looking for. A female reader, , writes 19 December 2011 : Hello there! I can really resonate with you here as I have had multiple boyfriends who have been downright embarrassing and precocious in social situations. I think what we have here is an insecurity. Your boyfriend obviously feels insecure about that snog. Either that or he feels socially insecure - he might be uncomfortable or inadequate or even a little bit jealous of that fact that you have many good friends. Does he have many mates or is he a social person? It might be that he is overcompensating and going a bit over the top. This in my opinion can be forgiven as long as it is nipped in the bud quickly and you don't hold onto your anger about it. Its a good idea that you pulled him aside and talked with him about it and because it is relatively early days i think you can expand on your communication and get that going - i think also the fact that he knew he had been rude and was aware and apologised is a good sign so just keep working on your communication. If he keeps up with it after all of your communication then there might be a time where you will tire of it and end the relationship, but for now, think of the good qualities he has and enjoy them!
