I know somebody going through hell in marriage and she's gradually losing it. And worst part?. She can't leave cause her spiritual director is aganist it. But the annoying part is that she found out the real kind of person the hubby is just before the wedding but 1st, she was already pregnant 2nd, she was afraid and ashamed of what people she bragged to will say. She's older than me with at least 4years but when she was still freshly in love with her hubby.. she will keeping singing how she used her domestic side to win her hubby from a girl that will visit the hubby and hang her legs on the table while she do the chores and serve the hubby and also the girl indirectly. I knew something was wrong but couldn't advice my 'elder ' nahh. I once did through her mate she's always singing about her hubby to, but the girl couldn't do much cause everybody will tag her hater as per say she never marry and her bf left her then. But then I don't pity her much cause she and her husband actually taunted the other girl cause she wasn't married then and the both of them were always in one competition or the other. But I now I pity her (even tho she still pretends to be alright and happening). She needs a good reset but I can't help it nahh, i think she depends solely on the hubby and if I succeed in convincing her to leave for the sake of her kids.. how will she cope?. Abeg I will mind my business and she's my 'Senior'. She has friends and parents and siblings and spiritual director (all these pastors that won't remove religion to things) who should help her out, cause coming from me?.. I'm a hater. Poster Your mum is really strong mbok. I love that she had the courage to leave
