There is a girl I have a pretty big thing on, I am talking very much girlfriend material. I messaged her the day after, but she never responded - however did respond to the girl I was with about something different. Where to from here? I messaged her the day after, but she never responded - however did respond to the girl I was with about something different. Where to from here? A girl friend of mine mentioned that maybe she is confused, she originally just wanted friendship and now we have kissed - she did say that for that to happen, that she has to be attracted or wanted more at that point in time. I mean, she is ignoring me entirely so I can't exactly arrange to get together or talk to her unless I take the step - unless you mean to just stop contacting her completely, and let her come to me? And just act in adundance.. A girl friend of mine mentioned that maybe she is confused, she originally just wanted friendship and now we have kissed - she did say that for that to happen, that she has to be attracted or wanted more at that point in time. I mean, she is ignoring me entirely so I can't exactly arrange to get together or talk to her unless I take the step - unless you mean to just stop contacting her completely, and let her come to me? And just act in adundance.. She knows I like her, I let that one slip - but I will admit as time goes on, that attraction to her is slipping.. You just crossed my mind while sitting here listening to this trainer ramble on.. Can't believe you are STILL asleep - Call me when you wake up! Is it possible that she has just brushed the kiss off, or would the kiss be playing in her mind for sure? She knows I like her, I let that one slip - but I will admit as time goes on, that attraction to her is slipping.. You just crossed my mind while sitting here listening to this trainer ramble on.. Can't believe you are STILL asleep - Call me when you wake up! Is it possible that she has just brushed the kiss off, or would the kiss be playing in her mind for sure? The horrible habit I have is over analysing - its the risk management in me, constantly monitoring and reviewing things. So to summarise what you think the way to go is - Ignore her back, fill my time with doing other things, meeting other girls and act like her ignoring doesn't phase me? Let her come back to me rather then me chasing her and projecting that neediness? And just to go back over what you said earlier, I need to give her the mindset that I have disappeared and have her wondering how I feel about things? Let her come back to me rather then me chasing her and projecting that neediness? And just to go back over what you said earlier, I need to give her the mindset that I have disappeared and have her wondering how I feel about things? BkTom wrote: you got it. Back to being me and not letting her phase me it is then.. As much of a struggle it will be, I haven't really got any other choice. BkTom wrote: the begginings of it. Then add in some advice, rather then attacking another. I can say that I like the style of your writing, very easy to follow and you seem more knowledgeable than many. However, I tend to avoid making comments on posts that deal with BkTom's suggestions. Overall, he is true with a lot of things, but can be a bit harsh for a female to read, lol. So, being the feisty one that I am, I keep quiet. We tend to butt heads often, LOL... She said that what if she was ignoring me to see if I would fight for her vs. I'm not ready, but what happened was really stupid of me and I'm sorry. Now I'm being the coward, but you will understand in time. I will tell you when I'm to ready to do so. She said that what if she was ignoring me to see if I would fight for her vs. I'm not ready, but what happened was really stupid of me and I'm sorry. Now I'm being the coward, but you will understand in time. I will tell you when I'm to ready to do so. However, I tend to avoid making comments on posts that deal with BkTom's suggestions. Overall, he is true with a lot of things, but can be a bit harsh for a female to read, lol. So, being the feisty one that I am, I keep quiet. We tend to butt heads often, LOL... She said that what if she was ignoring me to see if I would fight for her vs. I'm not ready, but what happened was really stupid of me and I'm sorry. Now I'm being the coward, but you will understand in time. I will tell you when I'm to ready to do so. So I am still to just cut ties and move forward, even though she did end up replying? There are other girls, but not ones that motivate me in the way she does. However, I tend to avoid making comments on posts that deal with BkTom's suggestions. Overall, he is true with a lot of things, but can be a bit harsh for a female to read, lol. So, being the feisty one that I am, I keep quiet. We tend to butt heads often, LOL... Asking me to call her, saying she didn't want to ruin anything etc. So I spoke to her, gave her a call when. I eventually got a chance. She said she had something to tell me, that she thought I deserved and needed to know. Something she has never told anyone before, and after I arranged to go see her to talk about it she pulled back and said that the thought of telling someone was making her ill so she couldn't do it last night. But she promised to call and talk to me tonight about it. It really shouldn't be this hard.
