I have been with my husband for 10 years although we have been living together for 7 years. The last few years have been very tough on us since we have been going through a lot of emotional and financial stress in the family but we are getting by. I just found out through Facebook that my husband has another family he has been keeping secretly. He did not deny it but said that he loves me very much and that he kept it a secret to avoid hurting me. I was devastated by the discovery. Now I hate him so much that most times I cannot even stand to see him around me. I no longer trust him and feel that my respect for him has gone. He keeps saying that it is me he loves and that the other woman and child was a mistake. I need your advice on how to deal with this. Please help me. {Leah}
