I went to see my close friend from school days who is now married. People what my eyes saw I can not describe she got married last year March and has a baby. It was dirt from the living room all round they are not rich but I believe with what they have it is a good start. The cloth on her body was dirty, I mean white turned brown. She didn't bath till when I left 5pm yesterday. There was funk in the toilet and it could flush there was water. When she wanted to wash she brought the bucket to the sitting room and did the washing there. The kitchen sink was filled with dirty dishes from God knows when . I was tempted to pick up the broom and start cleaning for her. I left without telling her how I felt and now I feel like a bad friend cos she is one person that will stick her neck out for u any day. I think this her dirty might soon begin to tell on her marriage because it was really bad. I love my friend and I want her to be OK and succeed in marriage. I do not know how to tell her so as not to loose her friendship or hurt her and in keeping quiet I think I am a bad friend. Note we stayed together briefly in school and so I noticed her dirty behavior but I thought marriage would change her until I went visiting yesterday.
