why will your husband just dump the whole responsibility on you like that, is it easy to school in a foreign country as a single lady not to talk of one with 2 kids oo. So he just wants to stay here in Nigeria 'flenjoring' with zero worries while you will be sending dollars home abi.. it's a risky affair. If anyone should be living their job, I think it should be the one earning less just in case things don't work out as planned, there will be something to fall back on. If you go there and find out you can't cope nko, what happens to your career? Mind you, should your hubby decide to retain that his govt job, his pay wouldn't increase significantly within the next 4_6 years. Imo your husband is in a better place to travel and find a means, you stay back with the kids for now and see how it turns out. In conclusion, may God grant you the wisdom you need to tackle this issue as that is key!
