Watch His Body Language You can tell a lot about what someone is thinking and feeling just by watching their carefully. So what does that mean for you? It means you can pretty easily or not just by watching for a few key signs! Take The Quiz: Does He Like You? One of the most common signs is that he looks at you a lot. I mean, like a lot. Watch his hands, feet, and legs. When he first sees you, does he groom himself? Does he straighten a tie, or fix his shirt, or smooth down his hair? Watch his sitting positions too. Eye Contact Eye Contact Eye Contact! Eye contact is one of the most important things to notice about a guy. More assured and confident guys will actually make and hold eye contact. What do most of them talk about? One good way to see just how interested he is in you is to watch his body language during conversation. Try saying something softly. Does he lean in to hear you? Does he stay closer to you after leaning in, or does he retreat away from you? Keeping an eye on how he positions himself during conversation will help reveal how interested he is in being with you. Touching someone else and being touched is a super important way of gauging how interested and how intimate he wants to be with you — and a great way to figure out how he feels is to watch how he reacts to touching you and being touched by you. Guys who are interested will generally find excuses to touch you — like touching your hand when he laughs, or brushing your leg with his without moving it away, or even giving you hugs for the flimsiest of reasons. Next, watch what happens when you touch him. If you brush your hand gently against his neck or hold his arm gently with your hand — does he flinch away? Does he move his hand away from yours if you touch him? Or does he move to stay in further body contact with you? Does He Treat You Differently? When a guy is interested in you, he might start behaving differently towards you, especially in a group. A guy will do this when he wants to see your reaction to him flirting with other women — so that he can tell whether you like him. Try leaving to go to the bathroom or get something from outside, then see if you can find a sneaky observation point to watch him. Especially keep an eye out if something you brought to his attention becomes his favorite thing. Does He Look Nervous Around You? How about — does he take deep breaths? Or, they might have guessed it from him in the first place. Do they smile when they see you? His friend might be looking out for himself — to your detriment! Watch His Actions — Does He Copy You? Touch your face after he touches his, smooth your hair when he smooths his, and so on. If he sits down at the same table as you for lunch, or follows you to the break room at work, he wants to be closer to you. Does He Gently Tease You? If he teases you at all — definitely pay attention. Is it a fun, gentle tease? Be aware — younger guys are the most likely to use this tactic to demonstrate interest. However, if he teases every girl he flirts with, it might just be his style. However, if he actually hurts you jerk! Does He Notice When You Change Your Look? Change your look recently? Maybe you changed the way you do your hair, or put on different makeup, or even changed your hair color. That answer determines everything… Do you know how men determine if a woman is girlfriend material the type of woman he commits himself to or if he sees you as just a fling? If not you need to read this next: The second problem almost all women experience: At some point he starts to lose interest. I hesitated a lot on writing this. I had a huge mental debate on whether I should write this or not because I feel like I am going to be judged, but here I am. So here goes nothing i guess. They keep finding excuses to tell me that he likes me, and one day he even found out that they set me up with him. I have a colleague who is acting a bit weird around me. When there are others it seems he ignores me — he talks to everyone, except me, maybe once smiles at me or ask sth, but mostly ignoring. When we are only together though, he helps me a lot, smiles all the time and he stands really close to me. The other day we had some delicious cake at the company for everyone and I saw him getting more slices, so I joked with him and a few mins later he got a slice for me with a big smile on his face, without me asking him. I have no idea why he does that. Do you think he likes me or he just wanted to be nice when we are only together working? This is how i started liking the someone else: He was in my main classes but we never really talked, until in October when i moved up into his science class, we never still talked but then the teacher changed the whole seating plan and I end up sitting next to him. We started to talk and we got along very well the only reason I talked to him to make him and my best friend go out together. But then I started developing feelings and I think he did as well, but then I lied to my best friend saying I like someone else. The boy who likes me: It all started when I got moved from my seat in Geography class and I sat next to him, at f
