Donovan is a sexist son of a bitch who objectifies women by keeping them on their toes, their backs, and their knees where they belong. Add him on and follow him on. Men here know there are countless reasons dating a single mother is a terrible idea. Any man who unwittingly wanders into the clutches of one of these harpies is doomed from the start. A no win situation for the poor sap. But every once in a blue moon we run into a baby mama that not only passes the boner test, she has the art of mimicking a quality woman down pat. Now before you guys start frothing at the mouth let me be clear: I will never advocate commiting to, dating, or God forbid, marrying these women. But if you absolutely must tangle with these tarts or are just starting out in game and looking for quick and easy lays to get your feet wet, here are 8 rules to follow to get what you want out of them easy sex without ending up like this… 8. What I am suggesting is that giving off a bit of a provider vibe every so often can work in your favor. The reason is that the most important trait to an SM when hunting for a target looking for a man is his ability to provide for her children. Blowjobs on command, back massages, after-sex sandwiches, strip teases, you name it. Can you watch Timmy while I run in? Nip this in the bud the first time she tries it because this is also a shit test. If she raises hell about it, next her. There are plenty of hot sluts out there without any snot nosed baggage. Turn her into a bowling ball Regardless of how hot a single mom is, her SMV is lowered because she has children. They would never verbally acknowledge this in public but they know the score. Not having much else to bring to the table she will concentrate her efforts in the bedroom to balance the baggage created by her rug rats. Take full advantage of this—turn her into a bowling ball and penetrate all three of her luscious holes. She will gladly participate in any debauchery your dirty mind can dream up to keep you around. Anal sex, parking lot blow jobs, sex tapes, and nude pictures are just the tip of the iceberg. Nothing is off limits and neither are any of her orifices. The very first time she withholds sex, NEXT HER A single mother withholding sex from you is a mathematical inevitability. This is your only move in this scenario. Use her as a fuck buddy, nothing more Single mothers make great fuck buddies. But making her anything other than a coitus companion is a huge mistake. Bang buds are for banging, not having romantic little chats over lattes with. Bounce like a bad check when the dirty deed is done. Leave that to her orbiters and the government. Giving an SM any allowance of your time, money, or attention only leads to trouble. Underestimating her ability to weasel her way into your resources would be a gross misstep on your part. Fuck buddy is the only status she. Who can blame them? I know this from personal experience. Do yourself a favor and do not connect with her children. Avoiding them all together is probably the best course of action. This should be quite easy as there is usually a custody order in place which requires them to spend a couple nights a week with dad. Do not pay for anything This one is simple, gents. There is absolutely no need to take out your wallet for a woman who gets food and shelter from the government, financial favors from white knights, and monthly payments from the father s of her child ren. As soon as she secures a commitment from said provider via shared residence, marriage, etc. On this assumption she then goes on the hunt for alpha cock to take care of herself, thus, satisfying her hypergamy. Believing anything different will lead to your undoing. Her mission in life is to lock down a beta provider for her young at all costs. Read More: pauldrake Why? Just be smart and control the situation. Men need adventure and variety. At least those with a pulse do. If you want to go for it. If not leave it alone and hunt elsewhere. TheWastelander Single moms are extremely dangerous. A lot of them want to trap you through some of the ways listed in the article above and through another pregnancy. The State has him firmly in its grasp most of the time, sometimes to the point of suicide on his part. She wants more than the free ride Uncle Sugar is giving her. Truly shocking stuff indeed tell me what you think. Truth Tiger Was in that exact situation with a divorced mother nurse I met last year. Why does it matter? I ended the conversation smoothly and quickly, saying it was too late and maybe another time. After a couple texts from her later, no more contact. Soft spot in my otherwise hard, darkened heart for kids, especially abandoned kids or perhaps better put, kids where the State, at the bequest of the mother, puts a gun to his head and removes the father by force from their lives. So when she reaches into the garbage in an attempt to fertilize herself… she burns her OWN cooch INSTEAD OF YOU. Some bitch tried this on a guy who phone in the Leykis show and told his story. She went into the bathroom and he heard intense SCREAMING. She ran out crying. Then she tried to SUE HIM for it. Then phoned Tom back to say THANKS! There are NO LIMITS to what these cunts will do to trap an otherwise responsibly behaved man into fatherhood. Women ARE doing it to get their claws into your wallet. Why do you think they have 11+ forms of birth control and men only have 2??? I have had this happen to me twice. Ironically, they seem to have absolutely no recollection of their distaste for abortion when you get pissed off and dump them because they lied to you and you tell them your not raising a kid with a liar. Had to pull rank like that twice. How they can play such cavalier games with children is beyond me. Shawana Wright here I cum! GhostOfJefferson The only single moms I hold out any respect for are widows. A divorcee with children at least made an attempt to do things the right way, although she in most cases has proved that she is not worthy of commitment. Regardless, I think the rules in this article would apply equally to women with kids in all of these situations. GhostOfJefferson I think the rules in this article would apply equally to women with kids in all of these situations. Single mom to me means a mom who is single, the why of the single-hood is irrelevant. In this case, widows, divorcess and out of wedlock mothers. Kind of like homeless took the place of bum, drifter, migrant, hobo, panhandler, etc. Alex As with everything in this cesspool called the Western civilization the language has been so corrupted by our lords and masters that black is white and gay is right. When you engaged, most of the time you were engaged to a virgin who would form a deep pair bond with you since you were her first. Acehole This is true of the era, but after marriage things usually went south for most couples. While I do know many people from that generation who are still married the majority