You did well by not cohabiting...if he is eager to have u under his roof he shd do d needful - pay ur bride price, shikena!
He probably let u in on d conversation purposely, to make u feel insecure and then try to secure ur territory by moving in with him. Keep ur house o, u can go to his place and stay a whole day but sleep in ur house mbok!
To say that all men cheat is not true, but the percentage of faithful men is so small, very tiny. Like out of 100 men only 3 are 100% faithful...like my friend would say "it is easier for a camel to pass thru the eye of a needle than for u to find a man who falls in the 3%". Very hard. You could keep searching for that 3% an entire lifetime and not find...it is an extreme kind of luck to catch a faithful man.
Torture him a bit before u forgive him. Tell him in strong terms that u won't condone cheating,now or in marriage. Tell him cheating is a no- no and a deal breaker for u and that u'd be giving him d very last chance. Forgive him and move on, if he is good in other areas
