For whatever reason, there is a great deal of intrigue and wonder when it comes to the Scorpio. For some, it can be difficult to read this water sign. People find Scorpios to be private, sensual, mysterious, eloquent, childlike -- pretty much everything. Scorpio has a wide range of emotions, that many other zodiacs never experience. It is like a great hall of psychology -- which may be why many of the greatest actors are Scorpios, think Ryan Gosling, Leonardo DiCaprio, and Julia Roberts. In order to play great characters, you must understand the full force of emotions -- and how to harness them. You also get stars like Ryan Reynolds... Scorpios are fairly easy to read in relationships. If they are interested in you, they will keep the conversation going regardless of the cost. If a Scorpio likes you, they want to spend time with you one on one to get to know you... Scorpios are really looking for something deeper than what people usually have on their minds with them: a physical connection. The best advice I have for steering a Scorpio relationship, is don't head to the sheets immediately. They probably will only see you as a casual thing. What you need to do is get them talking, let them open up about their private matters, and get the wheels in their head turning. Take everything slowly, and you'll have a long term relationship. And I do mean everything. Don't reveal your cards too quick, Scorpios love mystery. They'll ask about your day and ask how you are doing -- to see if you want to hang out, but also to see what you have been doing. They like to have a puzzle before them to slowly but surely figure it out. From your personality, your looks, your brain, your emotions -- everything. If a Scorpio has made up its mind about someone, it is going after them. They'll text you throughout the day, they'll make it seem normal when you get a message from them. Scorpio likes the chase and the mystery. They have a lot of questions, but they want to figure them out without having to be blunt about it. They might ask you about your rough day at work, how your mom is doing, if the dog's surgery went well, if your car needs to be fixed. They may give you ride when your car dies, they may make you soup when you are sick, and they may try to entertain you so you feel good. Like their sister is in town, they got a new job, they are thinking about getting a puppy. They will want to support you. You can overwhelm someone if you overtext. When a Scorpio likes someone, they do what they can to make things happen. They are known for being physical, but they are also highly intelligent, emotional, and perceptive. They get burnt a lot, and sometimes give up entirely on finding someone who really makes sense for them. All Scorpios are looking for someone who accepts them, lets them be, and encourages them. A Scorpio will offer you great loyalty, but if you cross them, they may cut the cord and move on. So don't play games of infidelity with them. A Scorpio loves a good mystery. They tend to latch on longer to those with great minds or interesting quirks. They don't really care for something too normal or too dry -- they'll zone out into their imagination or just tune everything out and be in zombie mode. Scorpio wants someone they can show off. They want great arm candy, they want great mind candy, they want it all, but they're not even sure this kind of person exists. Scorpios can be some of the filthiest, downright sensual-crazed people you've ever met -- think Deadpool... Scorpios are a mix of wanting to take charge and also be sought. The Scorpios I know have made the first move. Scorpio will want you. They'll want everything about you. This should come clear in their texts. They don't want you in pieces, they want to know everything, they want to like everything. They want to know what makes you tick, why you are so kind, why you get so cranky at some random hour, and they want to know if you know the meaning of life. When matured, a Scorpio will look for a long term partner that makes for a strong support system. When it comes to a Scorpio, or anyone for that matter, what is of the most important matter is that their number one priority, the number one reason they like you, is your heart. I know it may seem silly, but it isn't going to be strong enough if they only like you for your looks, it isn'tt going to be right if you are only liked for your mind. They need to be interested in your heart. Ask them why they like you, make sure they care about your heart, otherwise you could end up heartbroken. We don't care enough about hearts in our society -- the number one way we die in the western world is from a heart attack. Examine your heart, be free of all the lies around you. It doesn't matter how many people you date, how many romantic adventures you do in this world -- allow your heart to be the top priority. You need to love your heart, everything else is a luxury. Your body will wither, your mind will fade, your personality will go flat.... There is no such thing as wisdom without kindness. The two are inseparable. Wisdom is a symptom of kindness. Without kindness, you are only shrewd. She said she just sometimes Isolate herself. What should I do? He is sweet and always tries to help me with life issues. We're texting for 2 years. Once, a year and half ago, he asked me out for coffee but said it's a treat for as he got new job but due to schedule we couldn't go out. We talk about life and world and human nature and all deep thoughts and we both have agreed at times that we connect to some another mentality. We have tagged ourselves as friends so I don't feel comfortable to confront him with his feelings or he is seeing someone else, but also at few times feel like he is 'trying' us and doesn't want to take things fast. We're living in different towns and known eachother through childhood home town connections. As we're mostly texting I feel I'm getting mixed signals from him. Because he really gives hours after midnight just to talk about random stuff. But it's always me who starts a conversation. I feel he might not want to talk but when we talk we talk for hours. We're really close friends so I don't want to ruin that in search of a relationship. I prefer to give ourselves all the time and space. But really wants to know if it's worth it? Because it'll hurt if I'll fall too hard from him. I had a really bad breakup in the past and haven't been on a real date in past 5 years. He's the first person who broke the walls I built around me. But also he told me time to time that he went on a date with 2-3 girls which didn't work out. So where are we heading? We have been talking off and on for a month or so now. Sometimes the conversations are funny, serious, and non -existant. I asked him the other night how he felt about our friendship, he said the texting is fine for now. But you can't get to know someone through text. So, I'm wondering why he hasn't tried to ask me out yet? Is he stringing me along, or not interested? I've tried sending flirty messages to him, but he doesn't flirt back, only tries to analyze it then I don't hear for a few days. It's kind o getting on my nerves a bit, as I am a Virgo. I'm not investing anymore time in on this, just curious as why he hasn't tried to ask me out yet? Now i don´t know if he has given up, but now i like him. And i don´t know, if i should tell him that i like him. Because it maybe can ruin our relationship or we can be together. Is there a way I can make her tell me? Or just get her to like me more? She definitely likes Pisces better, but said she like both of us equally. I just feel guilty that she thinks I don't know... Also, this has to be done over text bc she's in her first highschool year and me and Pisces are in the last yr of intermediate middle school P. S Does my Aquarius sign affect it? I asked if she wanted me to stay that night after sex, and she said no, but was politely apologetic and texted me the next day a thank you for a fun night. Do scorpio woman prefer controlling the situation? Being an Aries, I like the chase, its been a post two day quiet no communication so far.. We've definitely have had had intense eye to eye stares... Shall I ask her straight out where she stands? He says he likes me but calls me only at night when he is drunk. We can talk for hours - usually he does the talking. He often makes appointments but is never able to keep them. I am totally confused! He has asked me out at least 7 times and has cancelled each time. You'll find that you connect well one way or another, and can actually go into those deep places that maybe with others you don't feel you're fully getting to the root of it. I say keep talking to this woman. The truth of the matter will come to the surface in time. Cancer functions differently than Scorpio. Cancer feels a cycle of emotions and moods like the moon. They tend to have a strong feminine energy to them. Scorpio has a darkness and depth that can go as low as the Mariana Trench. Cancer will be accepting of you, but know a lot of people have a hard time when you go deep and low. I have been in relationships in the past and never quite understood them I tell myself was it love, lust? He said he likes me but he was too shy to tell me he always send videos about what he is up to and how is he feeling. He's in the Army that's why we don't have much time to talk to each other. 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