To our knowledge, this company collects reviews by asking its customers to share their experiences on Trustpilot. This company has claimed its Trustpilot profile, but to our knowledge, doesn't actively invite its customers to write reviews on Trustpilot. This company hasn't claimed its Trustpilot profile and to our knowledge, doesn't actively invite its customers to write reviews on Trustpilot. PHONY FROM THE GET GO. THE WOMEN ARE PHONY, LIVE IN THE MOST REMOTE LOCATIONS AND ANSWER WITH CANNED PHRASES IF AT ALL. RESPONSES ARE FEW AND FAR BETWEEN. MEN KEEP BUYING CREDITS AND GET ZERO RETURN ON THE BUCK. WASTE OF MONEY, TIME AND EFFORT. WINKS AND GIFTS ARE BS, MOST OF THE WOMEN ARE FAT FAT AND THEY DO NOT RESPOND EITHER. AM is a SHAM. Do not waste your money on this site. I have sent numerous messages with only one response which lead no where. However, I've hooked up with 4 different women from 30 to 55. One is on going, one lasted 6 months the other got too intense and after she left her husband I panicked! The best advice, be real. Read their profiles and tailor your messages to them. If they mention their favourite colour, you do the same! And be realistic, the gorgeous 22 year old is not interested in a fat 50 year old man. I've tried Ashley Madison, and the response rate is 0. The women are not responsive. Ashley Madison is a waste of money. You are better off meeting real women in real-life at clubs, bars, and sex clubs. If you are looking to just bang, for men and women, and no relationship, you are better off joining Sex Clubs or Swingers Clubs. Im in the Atlanta Georgia Market. You have to use your limited credits to send any message which is fine as it's their business model. However; ive sent 13 messages with no response and the system says the recipients are online. No one has even viewed my page and I keep getting random auto generated messages from random females. Its all a big a scam. I didn't want to believe the reviews but now I wish I had. I also tried nostringsattached and nostringsaffair. Nostringsattached is the biggest scam!!! There are literally no females in my market who are active on the site. All except 1 have not been on the site in over 3 months. However, you wont know that until you pay the membership fee. I'm still trying nostringsaffairs; however, I've received no activity on there as of yet. I have been receiving random messages from women in California which have all been BS. It's going in the negative direction but my verdict is still out on that one. I just don't understand how you can message so many woman and no one views your page. I've been on regular dating sites that I've paid for like POF, Black People Meet, zoosk and okcupid and had plenty of profile views after I send a message but none on these three sites. I met my lover on Ashley Madison. We met for lunch, went straight into sexting, and when the time was right schedulewise we met in a beautiful hotel room and had 4 hours or wonderful, hot sex. Repeat the next week and hopefully repeat next week. My head is still spinning. This man knew what to say in his profile and his first text to me. After that it was lust at first bite. We are both are enjoying a no holds bar intimate relationship that is impossible with our respective spouses. It is so mind blowing that I have found a man so loving, vulnerable yet a risk taker that loves me as I love him. Side note, I am 63 and my lover is 70 - age makes no difference, but do tell the truth. I did have some men who I thought looked older, lie on their profile about their age. I never replied to them once they admitted the truth. So, tell the truth. Also, if your picture is good, women will probably respond, if it is not, they probably won't. Take the time to standout with a nice picture and explain exactly what you are looking for. I wrote a review not long ago, covering my experience as a 70-year old man finding a wonderful woman on AM, after about three-months of looking. I just want to quash the notion that there are no women AM. I'm absolutely sure that I met three real women on AM. I got to first base with two and one was a grand slam home run. Realize that many real women, out of real fear for their security, don't show image in their profiles. At first, I wondered if they were real, but I found out that they were. You have to write a very nice note to get started. Sending a picture of you cock apparently many idiots do this will get you black listed by most. Talk about how you can't really tell if you're a match, because of their necessarily limited Profile. Have a complete Profile for yourself and a nice, current picture, preferably at least waste up. Mention that you both need to be discreet and that'll you'll protect her privacy. If you're an axxhole over there, then you might want to think of your own approach. Still, the man needs to make the first move and make the woman feel really secure about him. I looked every day, once or twice per day, looking for women in my area, in my age range, that had just signed up. I found my girlfriend within the first hour of her signing up. The ladies get LOTS of approaches. You have to say the right things, or you will not get a second chance. When you first sign up, yes, you'll get come-ons from young women all over the country. Yes, that's a scam, but it's run by those women, not AM. You have to be extremely careful. DO NOT go on some ravishing 24-year old's private site expecting not to get a new one ripped out of your wallet. Use tight search criteria. I ended up with 60 and above, within 20-miles. At first, I used 50 and above and got to first base with two 50-year old women. One was 100-lbs heavier than her Profile picture and the other was a control freak. I wasted a coffee on the big gal and time on the controller. The numbers are against men, BUT there are real women on AM and I got me one. I actually enjoyed playing around on it for 4-5 months. I definitely DO NOT recommend!!! Ive been asked by a few very trusted friends how Ive had so much luck on the infidelity dating scene and I reckon it's time to share the trick. It applies to this site ashley madison and other sites that are as good or better, like nostringsaffair. Basically, you can't go one site at a time, trying them all like you're trying to find a pair of new jeans that look good. You've got to combine different sites and try at least a paid every three months. Then you ditch the one that didn't get you anywhere and switch to something better reviews sites like these usually show you what's working for people and what's new. Ditch and switch, but always have AT LEAST two running at any given time and you'll have enough women to talk to that you can set up the odd meeting here and there. Can't ask for more than that, good luck... You reply and there's 5 credits down the drain. I got a message from a lady, replied to her.. She then told me that she did not send it and had not logged in for a month. Within minutes of opening an account I was offered an unbelievable 3:1 credits used for messaging. Yes, the fees kept adding up. Also of interest, all of the photos on the first 24 and also on the next 9 from the second 24 hours of messaging profiles can be reverse image searched to pr0n websites. Ashleymadsion is just a trolling site for hucksters selling their pr0n websites and webcam subscriptions. Likelihood of meeting an actual human in your area I live near a 2. Ten years ago 2005-2009 , i had decent success with AFF meeting people for friendship and erotic hookups. Ashley Madison can go suck on a hollow log. I was VERY disappointed in this site. You will get tons of messages asking for your email address or cell. Just download or screen capture their photo and do a google image search on it. It's always fun busting those liars. I even tried calling one of the phone numbers one of them gave me and some dude answered not knowing what was going on. The best way to deal with anyone is to try to do a video chat with them on skype, or ask them to take a selfie holding up a paper with your name and today's date. The only one who did it, it was an obvious photoshop job lol. The only reason I didn't give it a 1 was because their support people were very nice, and even offered me a free month. There are only 2 types of female profiles on Ashley Madison. The first is imaginary... For any man who is naive enough to believe that AM profiles might represent real people, I ask you one question. Under what conditions would a 27 year old girl be interested in 67 year old man? You sign up for free, and immediately start receiving profiles of women who are interested in you. They come from around the country, and span all ages. Amazing, smart, attractive woman who can't wait to hear from you. And you believe this??????? Sadly enough, the answer is yes. WE BELIEVE WHAT WE WANT TO BELIEVE. And we want to believe that we've suddenly become attractive which has NEVER been the case or, on an even more delusional note, that the cosmos is finally recognizing our true worth. And you get 8 to 10 of these messages every day! And we eat this stuff up! Now, once you've begun to believe that meeting one of these women is a possibility, you get sucked into buying credits so you can communicate with these ladies. How many credits does it cost for you to send a message? Sorry, that number is a mystery. How about credits to receive a message? Again, a conundrum at best. Also, a new problem arises. Once you make your first purchase the game ends and all of those interested women just disappear. Their profiles are no longer findable! I could go on and on, but suffice it to say that this is a long lasting con game and you are FOOLISH to give these people any of your money. As the saying goes, if you look around the poker table and you can't figure out who the fish is... Now, onto the fraud. They've gamed the system! They are part of the system, These are shills for another con. They will send you enticing pictures, and insure you that they want to meet. Naturally, once you've been skinned the women disappear. Guys, I wish I had a cure for your pain. I can only say that Ashley Madison will only ADD to your pain. You'll actually get what you pay for. Do not waste your time or money! I tried and after sending out over fifty messages and having not one real reply I just asked a bunch of women what was wrong with me and was told straight up unless you are a ten to basically give it up. The customer service is also the worst ever. I sent several emails to them to never get any response at all. They were real quick with updating your profile and things at first but as soon as you pay them all bets are off. At the time that I wrote this I have been waiting three days for them to post the changes that I made to my profile and still nothing. To sum up, if you want to waste your time and money get aggravated and feel absolutely horrible about yourself then this is the site for you. If you are an attractive attached woman looking for a discreet affair Ashleymadison it is simply perfect! For those men who think sites like Ashleymadison or Saphrina are all fake because women don't answer their messages: I was contacted by many men and most of them were very unattractive. In some cases they were rude, boring or even both and of course I did not even waste one minute answering their messages. But of course I met some handsome and intelligent men as well and it was sure worth the wait.
