It's the determination to face God and not take what you dont deserve. I have a family friend who walked out penniless with 4 kids. Came and squatted in a room at my folks for months, she didn't even have a job at the time, no assistance cos She was from a poor background and was even the breadwinner of her siblings through her husband. Every night this woman will wake up by 12 and cry-pray until 6. Daytime she wont eat. Yes it was inconvenient for her and the kids and they even missed a term in school cos of eventual movement to another state, but she was determined never to go back.
Last year my mum bumped into her at the bank after many years of silence. Current situation? Two kids in the US. Two kids here. All happily married and doing well. She said: my sister i dont know how we did it but God never left us.
Don't ask me where the yeye pastor man is now, as usual my dad fished him out on Facebook 😂😂