So I'm in highschool, and I've recently stared flirting and liking this black guy. I told my parents about it, and not that they disapprove, but theyre worried that if a break up with this black guy, no white guys will date me. I personaly don't see the problem, but apparently there is one? I don't know if from a guys perspective there's an issue, or not? So guys, would you date a girl after she dated a black guy? And girls what do you think about this? Have you dated a black guy and then a white guy? If your a white chick and dating a ghetto black guy, I wouldn't date you afterward. I wouldn't date a girl after I've seen her date some white backwoods trailer-living, rodent-eating corndog-sniffing guy called Earl either... Its about the guy, not the color. I guys if a girl can drop her standards that low... There are decent black guys... The issue is not whether or not I am racist it's whether or not she respects her own body. White women are only drawn to black men because of the stigma of their Penis size, which is only slightly true by less than an inch. If they believe the media and the culture that's been shoved down their throats they are in my opinion weak minded individuals. Next let's get on with std rates, blacks have the highest rates of stds because they fuck like animals. I wouldn't wan to be with a woman who has a higher chance of having an std. I'm from a normal suburban area with a normal amount of black people but my friend and me all think the same way. If she's gone black we don't want her back. I think your parents are right, unfortunately. I don't know the community where you live, but in most places, even if there isn't overt racism against interracial couples, there will be hidden resentments and no doubt a fair number of guys will steer clear of you, at least for a time, if you have more than a very casual dating relationship with a black guy. Probably Hawaii is the only exception. No I would not. And the reason why is very simple. It's due to instincts. Most humans are strongly driven by instincts telling us what to desire in a partner. And one of the strongest instincts is the instinct to preserve what one percives to be ones own group of people. Black people usually wants black children. Asian people usually wants Asian children and Europeans will usually seek to have european children. This is natures way of producing and protecting diversity. And diversity is a very important concept for nature. Diversity increases the chance for life to survive. An example of this would be the dinosaurs. Most dinosaur species died out except for a few that could adapt to the new climate. Another strong instinct is the one that drives us to keep our gene pool as healthy as possible. By nature, we want strong, intelligent and beautiful children. For a healthy minded man to potentially have children with a partner that is known to be attracted to individuals with a behavior that is considered selfish, dangerous and highly irresponsible is completely unthinkable. Even more if the individual belonged to another racial group. Usually white males have no problem to date a woman who has been in a relationship with an Asian male and vice versa. And that is most probably because these two groups have good reputations. So this whole thing actually comes down to the simple question of, Good Offspring or Not good Offspring. You actually don't know shit about biology, son. Biracial children are no less healthy than children of one racial background. Actually, we are attracted to people who's immune system and genetic code is different from ours MORE. Diversity in the genetic code is extremely advantageous. In the book Biology of Belief is shown that genes make up a portion of the human product. But the real development comes from the environment in which that human grows up. White culture and white beliefs systems are a VERY VERY real aspect of our success as a race. Dumbing down our culture with diversity and lack of identity that sees itself as SEPARATE from the state will ultimately have very profound deleterious effects for the western world. White women that shun the very nurture of white men, will destroy the development of the following children. Mixed races do well in the west PRECISELY because the white race still exi